Eyüp Zeki KARABULUT: The Influence of Parents on Children – Manisa Kulis News, Manisa News

Today we are going to talk about babies who are in the purest and purest form possible at birth and while living. We will relate to our story of being a person who can perform many behaviors and movements that can occur in adulthood, while living with limited mobility in childhood, through the window.

Sometimes we hear statements from our close circle and relatives, “same mother, same father, same aunt, same temperament, same mood, he looks like his grandfather, etc.” Indeed, of course, there is a scientific explanation for its resemblance to the immediate environment, both physically and behaviorally. Children, who have been good observers and curious spectators since childhood, adapt to life by imitating the movements, reactions and behaviors developed in their immediate environment. Responses to events and behaviors are copied by infants and children. Therefore, similar reactions and behaviors of our immediate environment are very normal for us.

Depending on the changes / differences in our immediate environment, the differences in our development process, experience and our own formation in the advancing age and past process, we can move away from this similarity. In other words, changes in our development and life processes can be influenced by our intimate environment.

Let’s talk about the closest and most important people who influence children in this process; Parents

Mom

In the context of the bond that was formed between mother and children as caregivers; Being balanced, being able to show love, being consistent and uninterrupted contributes positively to the growth of a healthy person. The bond with the mother has a significant effect on the mental processes and personality development of children. Whether it is positive or negative may vary depending on the nature of the bond.

In bonding with children and their mothers, the quality of the process is more important than the time the mother spends with her child. Feelings of trust, attitudes and the role of mother and child are important for the development of the child.

Father

It is more common among people that the importance of the mother is always mentioned in the development and upbringing of the child, but it is noteworthy that the father is at least as important as the mother. In particular, a secure bond between father and child plays an important role in raising children who are academically successful, successful in social and bilateral relationships, and confident. We may experience positive results such as the absence of a parent-child relationship, which is both emotional and physical distance, more aggressive, aggressive and less academic achievement.

Also, the positive effects of positive and healthy parent-child relationships such as leadership, math achievement and the development of positive sexual identity in children also emerged as a result of the research.

Parental relationship

When talking about the influence of single mother or single father, the fact that parental relationships are healthy, harmonious and positive has a positive effect on the development of the child. The negative and unhealthy progress of the parent-teacher relationship, which has a significant impact, also leads to negative consequences.

Now, let’s talk about the behaviors and situations that occur in a healthy parent-child relationship with a study, experience, experience and scientific basis:

-There are more positive processes in the family life of parents who are less likely to argue, quarrel and partner with or against their children,

– The attitudes of parents who listen to their children and value and respect their children’s advice, thoughts and ideas have a positive effect on their children’s self-confidence and self-esteem,

– Parents who advise their children or act as role models for their behavior and adapt to their behavior make a positive contribution to their relationship with their children,

– It has been observed that a positive and healthy bond is formed between parents and their children, who welcome unconditional acceptance and love for their children, do not compare with other children and have positive and empathetic conversations.

In general, the most important partner in the development and upbringing of a child is the quality of the relationship between mother, father and parent. In other words, “Why is this child like that, who attracted him, there has never been such a person in our family?” Instead of finding fault or finding fault, it helps to convey positive and healthy results that every parent asks the question “Am I a good role model, where I have done wrong, what could be the cause and so on.”

Happy reading.

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